For the record: this is what I have written to the moderators of GDNNOP.
It's not about Fiona having a difference of opinion. It's about Fiona continuously DEMANDING information or answers to her questions. She has essentially asked Julie and I to detail abuses or things we know that are harmful for the children. I won't do that. I have said it a hundred times: I will not violate the privacy of the Gosselin children.. Period. What Julie and I know (and what others know) will have consequences on the kids for the rest of their lives. Someday, it's my hope that they will be able to return to a normal childhood. CPS has been notified (MULTIPLE TIMES by MULTIPLE PEOPLE). That doesn't entitle any of you to know why or when or how or the actions taken/not taken.
In addition, anyone reading the analogies I made and seriously believe I was comparing Kate and Jon to kidnappers didn't read the entire thread. Someone said that Kate and Jon should take every opportunity. My point was that there are times when opportunities shouldn't be taken. There's no sinister subtext, as some here have claimed. I was simply thinking of times when opportunities aren't always a good thing and anyone reading the whole blog should see that. If you don't, that reflects on your suspicious nature. If you are curious as to why I chose to word something in a certain way, then by all means ask me why. I would also appreciate it (though I don't expect it will happen) if people stopped assuming that GWoP and my blog are one in the same. When I was moderating, I can't point to comment after comment where members of this blog accused me of blocking comments. However, now I'm being slammed for not moderating and trusting people to refrain from nastiness (ON BOTH SIDES!) for forty-eight hours. So, which is it? My blog is also not a place where criticizing the children for being children is allowed. I have also stated, very plainly, that I think Jon and Kate love their children. That doesn't mean they're not in over the heads and making bad choices. Anyone who claims I hate Kate or Jon is sorely mistaken. I hate no one. Hate is a strong emotion that implies one has no pity or senses no redeeming qualities about the person they hate. I don't "hate" Jon or Kate (and one should note that I don't allow out-and-out bashing of either). I am disappointed by them. I am skeptical of their claims as I've seen many people hurt by them and have counted numerous lies and inconsistencies. Neither of those equates to hate.
I hope you will allow this to be posted.